Red Paper Clip Center

Stories

Red Paper Clip Center Stories of healing, and wholeness.

It’s important to note that while the stories are genuine, names have been created to protect the privacy of their identities.

Each of them is assigned a counselor/ mentor (the full story under Ben, and or Amy’s stories), the kids are in the Charter School (on the property and you can read more about that under Bruce’s story). Jim is assigned to a group I call the “Sane Men” (Dave is the leader of this group… of course his story is listed as well). This group of men is a crucial missing step. These men reach out to Jim to see how we as a community could have better supported this family, and Jim personally so this would not have happened. They are all working toward healing and wholeness for this family. They will accompany Jim to visitations at the CENTER and see what services that may be available to them all as a family. Once someone has a mentor that person is the focal point for making sure any and all services are made easily available, even if they are not available at the CENTER itself (another reason for the Centralized Data Base allowing for services outside of our groups, cross promoting, and collaborating with other agencies to maximize the benefit to all).

Breaking the Cycles of Abuse

Because of the amazing work that’s happening at the CENTER, we were able to help put this family back together. Sarah and Jim remember why they fell in love and now teach others how to not become abusive. Tony and Patty will not learn this behavior. Abuse is usually a childhood trauma that keeps us stuck in the cycle. Once we find the core of the issue, we can end that, create healing / wholeness, and overcome any and all adversity. This is a journey, but one worth doing, and easily achieved with the assistance and mentorship programs at the CENTER.

We are open to any and all discussions on our stories, any suggestions, and collaborations. It is one of the reasons we are creating the centralized database. Please assist us toward this massive change. Together we are strong as a tribe.

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